DO YOU HATE GOING HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS BECAUSE YOU KNOW THERE'S GOING TO BE FIGHTING ????

Question

I almost always hear how people hate going "home" for the holidays because of bad family feelings. IF YOUR FAMILY FIGHTS DURING THOSE TIMES. . . .WHAT SEEMS TO BE THE UNDERLYING "THEME"?

Answer 1

one of the reasons i stay away from people

Answer 2

Yes i think alot of families are like that

our underlying theme usually lies in who

did better that year whos kids are better

and all that good stuff.

to help you out you should

be the goofy one just be loud and obnoxious aha

try to joke around when the moment starts coming

and try to play around and joke around

they might all feed off your mood. It happened for me this past year.

goodluck =]

Answer 3

I always felt that as happy as holidays are and should be, they also bring the worse out in people.  I think that families and friends (so-to-speak) get together because it is the holidays and there are unresolved problems between them.  Once they get together, something may be said, however slight, and before you know it an argument ensues.  Holidays, especially Christmas, always bring down people more who already suffer from depression. Those with financial problems and there are many, is another example of how arguments and fights begin.  And, of course, there is drinking.  Every holiday brings food and drink and some indulge more than others.  There are happy drinkers and there are those mean drinkers.  And a Happy Holidays to you too.  

Answer 4

fighting. this problem is cause by people who don't have nothing else to do. the last thing on my mind is fighting. if people want to ruin their holiday fighting than let them do what they want. but my plans this holiday is to be with my family. have a good time. not fighting. and the underlying 'theme'? don't have an answer to that one.

Answer 5

sometime