DOES THiS SEEM LiKE IM HAVING s*x?

Question

My mom knows i get really bad cramps and nothing works if i say i want the pill is she going to think im having s*x?? How do I make her think im not sexually active. Even though thats what i need it for???

Answer 1

DUDE!

It's murphy's law,

IF YOU LIE TO YOUR MOTHER, THINGS WILL BLOW UP IN YOUR FACE WITH EITHER THE AIDS OR THE PRGNANCY!

Answer 2

She's you're mother. She has the same problems you do. So tell her straight up why you want the pill. It does help. :3

Answer 3

First of all don't lie to your mom...she will find out the truth and it will come back to haunt you.  It is best to avoid having s*x until you are fully ready to be responsible for the consequences.  I do admire you for wanting to protect yourself from pregnancy...since you don't give your age I assume you are young.  If you are sexually active you can seek advice from people trained in this area at Planned Parenthood.  Whatever you do you should ALWAYS use protection...I would suggest a condom too as they protect against STD's as well as preventing an unwanted pregnancy.  Please do not lie to your mom-you will lose her trust forever.

Answer 4

I just started taking the pill and i had some convincing to do first. I told her i get the worst cramps every month and it so distracting from school and having to constantly take midol is a pain in the ***. I told her is was stupid for me to have to suffer through that when there was something so simple and as small as a pill to take away all the pain. Being in your situation i know the LAST thing you want to say to her is im having s*x. Thats just out of the question haha

Answer 5

Plenty of women take the pill for reasons other than s*x. If you tell your mother that you need it for other reasons, she'll probably want you to have it.

Answer 6

Tell her the truth.  The truth is always easier to deal with then a lie exposed.  You have cramps, you need the pill, then 10 weeks from now you have syphilis..... and its going to be a lot harder to say, sorry I lied, then to just tell the truth in the first place.

Answer 7

u know ur not..thats wat matters!!

Answer 8

Don't have s*x and you wont have to worry about it.

Answer 9

Get your doctor to recommend it to your Mom.

Answer 10

I got put on the pill for bad cramps when I was 14-I was not sexually active. Tell your mom you have horrible cramps and want to see a doctor about them. The doctor will likely suggest the pill. That's how it happened for me.

Answer 11

you're too young for s*x!!!! my god....you aren't ready for the responsibilities that s*x can bring (babies or diseases) so just stay away from it until you are.

Answer 12

tell your mom you've had s*x and you want the pill.......I'm a mom and I'd love to hear "mom i need the pill so i don't get pregnant at a young age"   that would be so much better then "mom I'm 15 and pregnant" your mom was once a young girl she knows whats it like to have hormones out of control ......part of growing up is being able to have those really hard and embarrassing conversations...

Answer 13

the same thing happened to me i went to the doctor and they put me on birth control right away if your mom is so concerned about you having s*x tell her to read up on birth control because a lot of people go on birth control to regulate their periods and also to lower the intensity of cramps.

Answer 14

you dont. If your not grown up enough to tell your mother your having s*x then you shouldnt be having it. I went on the pill way before having s*x so i didnt need to tell my mom but i did. if u cant have adult conversation dont do adult activity. u may not like what i say now but ehen ur older u will probo give this same advice to a silly youngster who thinks its big and clever to have s*x-it dont make you a grown up you know

Answer 15

I would try to give her hints that you want it, and be like, hey mom i keep getting these awful cramps that really hurt, is there anything i can help to get rid of them? and if she says no, then i would wait a little while and then go back to her and be like i searched on the computer and they said that birth control and (anything else that there would be to stop cramps) can help make them not hurt, and go from there

Answer 16

I wouldn't recommend lying to your mom. If you think you are grown up enough to be having s*x,  you better be grown up enough to tell your parents the truth.

Answer 17

Ask your ,mom to take some time and talk with you about something that bothers you.  When the time is right fo both of you, tell her what is happening, and ask her to take you to your MD or OB/GYN doctor.  Tell your doctor what is going on, and ask what the best course of treatment would be best for you in this situation.  Let the doctor tell you BOTH what is his opinion.  Mom knows then that you are not trying to hide anything, and that you trust her enough to be able to help you.  It also builds up her trust level in you, so later and bigger things that happen will have her believe you much easier (whatever the  prob is), and it wil bond you two closer together.  Mom might have faced this issue when she was growing uup too)