Dad problems HELPPPP???

Question

Ok me and my dad have been basically not talking for 3 months see what happened was I met my bf and when I told my dad he forbid me to see him so I went to see him behind my dad's back now my bf lives in the bronx and I live in long island so thats a good 45 min train ride..so to make it short after the third time i got caught and i promised never to do it again but now my bf comes to my house because thats what my dad wanted but for some reason my dad gets angry and now he h***s at me and picks fights with me for no reason and idk what to do im stuck in my house for already 3 months and im goin out of my mind what should i do????

Answer 1

you could packing your stuff out then move live your boyfriend or you can called the police.

Answer 2

well...first, try using periods and commas in your sentences.  Then, you have to think about how your dad feels.  You're his little girl and he might be having a hard time excepting the fact that guys are noticing you.  How old are you?

Answer 3

Well I understand your problems, but I think the best thing you could do would, and i know it sounds cliche, but the best thing to do is to sit down and tell him how you really feel, and let him know how much he is hurting you, hopefully that will "wake him up" and make him realize that he's making your life miserable. If you ever need any help or anybody to talk to my email adress is [e-mail]. Dont be afraid to email any time!!!

Answer 4

Well no matter how old a child gets, theres a relationship that is solid with a parent or mom and dad.. And maybe you disappointed your dad, and so there for you've kinda lost the trust that he thought he had in you.. You shouldn't of lied and went behind his back to start with that was your first mistake.. You'll learn from your mistakes one way or another hopefully..

Parents love there kids for the most part and don't want them to make mistakes, even though kids would rather not listen to there parents..

best of luck just keep trying and don't lie anymore is your best chance

Answer 5

Oh that kinda sounds like my dad.He picks fights on me when he gets pissed at me.But maybe you should just let it go and break up with your boyfriend.Because maybe he isn't the right guy.And besides,you are not going to know him forever.I am sure you will find even better guys that your dad would be satisfied with you being in a relationship.

Answer 6

just don't let it get to you

my mom died when i was 6 and my dad is an alcholic so he is angry a lot too  but in your situation I think you should just let things cool down and don't get too upset

Answer 7

easy... sort of same thing happened 2 me but wit ma mom

if ur friend is a "BAD" influence then it will be hard

if not talk 2 him and explain that ur friendship is dear and close etc...

it should work out gradually  

Answer 8

You really need to learn how to write properly and learn how to be honest.  Your father is right in being angry with you.  Dump your bf and learn to behave properly.  The way you write shows you are not disciplined in following rules.  You really want to get into bigger trouble?  Move out and get lost and see what you will end up as.  I feel sorry for your daddy.  You really had disappointed your father and broke his heart.  If I were your father I would have disowned you long time ago.  You had disgraced your family. Apologize to you father and change your behavior at once.

Answer 9

Respect your fathers wishes.  You are just making your like hard for yourself.

Answer 10

While you're stuck in the house, study grammar.

Answer 11

break up with your boy and tell dad