Dance and date question?

Question

let's say a guy asks you to a dance,

and you say yes but another guy

asks you and the second guy

is the guy you actually wanted to go with,

is it mean to go with the second guy instead?

Answer 1

Well, yes it's kind of rude. Do you really like the second guy? Then go with him. It will be worse if you go with the first guy and spend the whole night hanging out with the second guy.  

Answer 2

It's beyond mean. You may not think so now, but later on, it will haunt you.

Answer 3

Life is short.

Don't wait for opportunities but don't let them pass you by either.

If you really want to go with the second guy then go with him. If you miss the opportunity, you'll hold this against the first guy. But, be forewarned-maybe the first guy is the right one for you.  Putting him off could mean you'll lose him.

Answer 4

go w/ the first guy, but save a dance for the other.

Answer 5

um...well if your single then you dont have to just dance with one you know flow with the breeze but!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! um..........i bet the one you like is the one that acts the least interested cuz that's how it usually works..lol..we fall for those lil ******* and wined up cheated on...lol!!

dont think to hard on it just have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!