Dancing(teens at dances)?

Question

ok so im 13 and go to a lot of school dances and mitvahs, ive danced with guys b4 but it was always awkward(fast dancin) the ""popular"" girls in my grade dance....SCANDALOUSLY.....and idk if guys actually like that. how shoulda girl act/dance with a guy?

btw:ppl at my school grind so thats y im askin

Answer 1

Lol. Well, I'm on the same boat as you are (well kinda, 13, school dances)

Lmao. Think about those "popular girls" and their dancing when high school dances are going to be with parental chaperones. I don't think they'll be grinding anymore.

But when I dance, I just let my body take control and do whatever my body feels like doing to go with the song.

And besides, grinding doesn't go with every song so those scandals are doing it for the attention. I've seen alot of those, I think they just want to show off to guys.

But my guy friends think that girls like that are weird and sluzts. So ....yea...I'm just ranting on...

Answer 2

i'm a junior in college

*guys usually expect me to dance with them just because i dance for my school but i dont always feel like it. sometimes i do sometimes i dont. the important thing to remember is that its "YOUR PORAGATIVE!"

dont do anything you feel uncomfortable doing.

dances/parties pretty much have the same purpose: to have fun listening to music and enjoy the company of good friends.

Regardless of how the "popular" girls act, you should always act like a LADY. which means having respect & integrity.

as you get older, your opinions may change and you may feel more comfortable dancing with guys and thats okay but no where in the "laws of popularity" does it say you have to.

you're young so dont worry about it.

and as far as guys are concernded..........

some guys like it and some dont. but you should like they one who respects you enough to respect any decision you make!

guys love girls who are confident in themselves!

Answer 3

im 13 and I dance freely. do whatever you feel like that doesn't mean you need to dance provocatively but just chill and dance like nobodies whatching