Dating a guy that you're currently not attracted to?

Question

It's going to be our second date tonight, and I'm just wondering what we could do.

He invited me to his place for dinner, should I go? And I do know how to get back home just in case anything happens.

Answer 1

You should be open and tell him the truth, your only going to hurt him more if you don't let him know now. I'm sure you've gone through something very similar.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

I recently had a similar problem but with a girl as i am a male. I did meet her a few times to see how we got on and if i thoguht we were suited but I didnt think we were and she did thinkwe were.....just go careful it can turn ugly if he gets the wrong idea. All the best

Answer 3

If I wasn't attracted to someone, I would never date them.  

Answer 4

Anyone could tell if someone wasn't attracted to them, so maybe you should just make him feel good about himself before breaking it off..?

And, s*x on the second date?

Answer 5

If, you don't like him, don't go. He might think you do like him!

Answer 6

Eh...Then why date him?  

Answer 7

aww that's pretty sad situation..

but don't not go to his place as in you should go as it would be very mean and unpolite if you didn't go. But when you do get there talk to him, tell him how you feel about him if any feelings towards him at all.

Let him know where he stands rather than just leaving him clueless!!!

You will find a way don't worry too much

Answer 8

Why are you still dating him if you aren't attracted to him? If you like hanging out with him but don't have any deeper attraction you should make it clear you are just looking for a friendship, otherwise you are just leading him on and that isn't fair to him or you

Answer 9

dont go... but better yet, why dont u bring one of ur gf over there so nothing will happen... then, if he still persistent to go on a date with u, i think u better tell him straight away how u feel towards him. just say ' we still can be friend' with a smile :) gd luck...