Dating a shorter guy?....im talking about acutal height.....

Question

Do you think is shallow to not date a guy becuase he is a bit on the shorter side? I am 17 years of age and so is he. The guy is really , nice, sweet and fun to hang out with. I have a hunch that he digs me but i dunno if i can date him and i think its because of his height....is that wrong and do i sound like a bi***?

Answer 1

ha.. theres this guy he's like sweet funny smart and cute Shorter than me lol

u shouldnt not go out with a guy just cause he shorter than u

Answer 2

yeah its shallow and you do sound like a b*****!!!  but thats you and if you cant get past his height...you dont deserve him...please...just follow your heart and stop thinking too much..thats how really nice guys get hurt...

Answer 3

that is very shallow! if u dig him then go for it.

Answer 4

It is shallow. How would you liek it if someone didnt date you becasue of your height?

Answer 5

looks arent everything and yes you sound a little like a ***** for it. but if he makes you feel good when you around him go for it. plenty of time to live. try it out

Answer 6

If you really like him, the height difference shouldn't matter. I have a friend who ended up having a guy end things with her because she was so reluctant to date him because he was shorter than her!

Answer 7

there's nothing wrong with preferring taller guys, because i dont date shorter guys either.

Answer 8

Thats mean, seriously!  I am dating a shorter guy than myself but it doesn't bother me at all... i mean if you really like him, go out with him, if you don't like him because of his appearance then thats your problem... if you don't like u 2 together u can always break up with him...

Answer 9

ok the one reason you wouldn't go out with him is because of his height?

he is nice, sweet, and fun to hang out with

so the personality is there, but because he isn't tall or as tall as you you don't want to date him?

If you really like him just see how it goes for a couple dates.  It will take some getting used to, but you are not dating his height you are dating him and who he is as a person.

Answer 10

Well, everyone has their preferences, but if he's so nice and funny then not dating him based solely on his height does seem pretty shallow. If it's just one of many reasons, some of which are more serious, then it's not.

Answer 11

i do not think thats being shallow at all. you just prefer dating taller men and thats perfectly finee. you can either stay friends with him and continue hanging out or go on a few dates and see how it goes. you might end up forgetting about his height completely after you get to know him a little better.

Answer 12

Yes, it's shallow. You're just immature.

When you mature and become a woman, you will know this makes no difference. Now all you care about it how something looks.

Hopefully someone finds YOU attractive and thin enough to date - perfect as you must be - lol!

Answer 13

I was shallow once and only dated wealthy, taller guys and now I'm happilly married and 4 mnths pregnant.  My husband is the same height as I am at 5.5", I'm slender looking whereas he's stocky so appears shorter then I am. Whenever we go out, whether it's a restuarant, bar, wedding or some other functions, I put on my 3/4 inch heels and we proudly walk hand in hand to the funtion.