My boyfriend has all the signs of somebody who abuses alcohol. He drinks a minimum of at 2 beers a night (not that I have a problem with that - but he doesn't go a night without drinking ANYTHING); drinks WHILE he drives; drinks a beer when he wakes up after a night of partying - and continues to drink during the day on the weekends.....and while I know he loves to party and so do I, it seems like he always has to have a drink because, as he puts it, "it helps him relax." When I say I don't want to drink anything he pushes me to have at least one with him and bugs me even after I say no.
My question is:
1) How do I make him see that his drinking is a problem? Every time I try to say something about how he should cut down we get into a fight - he doesn't think I should tell him "what to do."
2) Do I try to make things work if he doesn't change? I love him and want the BEST for him - things are GREAT when he's sober - but the constant drinking is something I have a hard time being around (especially since I've had my share of addiction problems in the past and have no desire to fall back into that lifestyle).
3) What would YOU do????
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