Dating different cultures and confused?

Question

could the fact that i have children already make a malaysian chinese man think that im a prostitue as im not married and never have been as they believe in marrage before s*x and children?

Answer 1

Why do you allow man stinking thinking to determine who you are? If God put you with this person l wouldn't let someone else assumptions or opinion bother me. It's not what man stinking thinking think but it's what God thinks. Scripture tells us how we need to be so go with what scripture say and ask God to show you what he has planned out for your life. Man cannot control himself let alone someone else so read, study and get your understanding from God. Jesus tells us not to put our trust in man but our trust in him.  

Answer 2

First, a Malaysian man of Chinese descent...or a Chinese man of Malaysian descent?  ...and 'your situation' depends a LOT on circumstances...where you were at when you had your children...where you and he are now...whether or not your children have the same father, or do they have multiple fathers, step fathers, etc...  A lot will also have to do with his 'perspective' and how intelligent he may be...  If you are overly concerned, you might want to consider hiring an attorney to answer the 'legal side' of your dilemma...and your minister the 'moral' side...