Ive been dating a dude who is perfect...hes very smart, is in medical school, and is a absolute gentleman. The thing is hes not my type exactly physically. I'm used to dating cocky ******* who know they are really attractive and dont call me back, hardly care about me for that matter, and take take take instead of a balanced give-take relationship.
One time, I started dating a dude I honestly couldnt stand to be around because I wasn't physically attracted to him (though he was deff everything else you could want). Long story short I stuck it out and totally fell in love with him. We broke up because he moved away for grad school though....So i'm hoping this will happen again for me. I feel like people who start off head over heals have unrealistic expectations and get caught up in the moment rather than thinking about the long term...
Have any of you had to "fight yourself" like this to go for the good guy rather than get hurt again by something not good for you??
How did it work? What about the people that you know who have been married a good amount of time..love at first sight or slow and steady?
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