Dating with 8 months of pregnancy Help!?

Question

Father of my son leave my country 7 months ago, he doesnt help me with money, call me or come to visit me; we have not finished the relationship yet (if we can call it that way). I meet an ex boyfriend several weeks ago, he leave me a year and a half ago because he has a problem on his legs that makes him very short person and he thought I was playing with his feelings I told him If he didn´t trust on me I was agree to finish the relation so we leave it. Today he called me and asked me for take a coffe to "talk" wich I accepted, Is obvious I am pregnated and he knows it, is just I am scared and don´t know if I should go or cancel. Also don´t know what to say about the father of my son and my circunstances, I have right now not much self esteem because all my pregnacy I´ve been alone and I am very sensitive In fact I feel guilty for acept the coffe coz I am still with the father of my son even we are not toguether but haven´t finish the relation, don´t wanna cry if he asks or be like "I am searching father for my son" because I am not. But what to say or what I shouldn´t say and how to act to do not let somebody else hurt me?

Please help me :-( I am really sad about all this

Answer 1

You should go and "listen" to what he wants to tell you.  He may be an answer to your prayers.

If nothing else, then maybe you will have closure with THAT relationship.

Answer 2

Be proud of who you are and be proud of your baby.  He was out of your life for a while and he couldn't have possibly have thought that you would wait for him to return.  Go have the coffee date with him and be confident with yourself.