Daughter Trouble, Please Help!!!?

Question

I feel like my daughter hates me. She even says so. She is never aprecciative, and is mean to her sibs. What can i do? Please Help me.

Answer 1

Take her to therapy, How old is she? and also a lot of kids say they hate their parents and a trip to Mc Donalds is all it takes to change that! lol My five year old son broke one of hy three year old daughter's toys, "Pix say sorry to Samantha." "NO!" "Pix come on I know you didn't mean to do it but you still have to say sorry" "I CAN'T BECAUSE THAT LITTLE BABY IS STUPID AND SHE GETS EVERY THING SHE WANTS AND I DON'T GET TO DO AS MUCH STUFF ANYMORE I HATE YOU BOTH I HATE SAMMY AND YOU JUST SHUT UP!'' Man Pix has sibling rivlery he eventully got over it he still calls her a cry baby sometimes whitch I won't stand for and after the night he had the tantrom over Sam's broken toy he had to sit in a chair for ten mins man and my husband left me too so I have one child with sibling rivelry and one child Samantha with asthma (she tend to actully not be haveing her asthma problems much anymore, weird) pluse I live with my sis cause I lost my job, hmm... well good luck to you

Answer 2

Counseling.....you will be amazed at how much information can come out that needs to be addressed.  There is obviously a reason she is this way.  You will not be able to find out alone, she needs help and I suggest you get it soon before the other kids build resenment, anger and then start acting like her.  Look into your medical insurance carrier, quite often, your insurance will pay and even reccomend someone.

Answer 3

Well it all depends on her age.  FYI most (I will not say all)  will tell their parents they hate them don't worry about that.  Also kids today think that they are owed everything so no they are not appreciative.  Make them have to pay for something they want they may become more appreciative than.

As to her being mean to her sibs, well it is hard to say how to handle it since I am unsure of the age.

Answer 4

How old is your daughter? If she is a teenager then this is normal. But if her meanness gets out of line the I would seek help.

I would try talking to her and finding why she is the way she is or even get her a therapist. That seemed to work for my 14 y/o daughter.

Answer 5

You're the parent. Tell her that her behavior is inappropriate, not appreciated and she needs to change . Send her to her room for a while or put her in time out. Limit tv and pc time. Get involved. Try to talk to her to find out what is going on. Is she having boy troubles or friend troubles? Are some of her friends trouble?  But step up to the plate because you are the parent and should be in charge.

Answer 6

This type of ungratefully attitude arises when parents do not EFFECTIVELY teach & discipline their children.

You need to go to parenting classes.

Chances are though your brat *cough* daughter has been allowed to get away w/ this type of completely unacceptbale behavior for sometime.

Expect for her to only get worse as time goes by unless you take control of your child now!!!!

Her behavior will depend on how much time. effort & enery YOU put into her.

Good luck!

Answer 7

it all dependes on there age if there in the teens u shouldn't worry at all its a phase

Answer 8

Let her know that you love her.  Tell her that speaking to you in that manner is NOT acceptable and take away something she really likes (I use movies and music with my dtr.)

Boundaries and expectations need to be made known to your daughter.  Pull in the ropes.  Let her see how lucky she actually is, how much she has.  My dtr "earns" tickets for good behavior.  Each ticket is worth 15 mins "freed time" or a quarter.  You have to be consistent with it though.

Parenting is tough.  Esp. when they have "challenges",.  I would also have her go to a psychologist so that she has someone neutral to speak with.  BTW how old is your dtr?

Emma