Daughter is being mean to everyone?

Question

my 1 year old is being mean to my sisters dogs she picks them up and bits them steps on them punches them

and she always hits her 9 mo old cousin trowning things at him and she slaps everybody i wont spank her i tell her no thats not good or nice to hit people or animals but i dont know what else to do i dont want to keep her locked away from everybody and i dont know where shes getting this she dont watch tv me and my bf dont fight so im lost and dont know what to do i dont want this geting worse

Answer 1

u better beat her azz now be 4 it does get worst,

she could grow up 2 be a bully

in these days, aint nobody gonna take no s**+% from no bullys

you know what will happen, IN THESE DAYS

think about it, i hope we're on the same page

Answer 2

omg! you need to tell her what ecxeptable and not!!

Answer 3

in my opinion she is a 1 yr old BABY! she does not need her azz beat! omg how could anyone think that! all a 1 yr old needs is a tap on the hand and for a grown up to say no thats bad then take her hand and show her how to do nice! i have 2 children 2 and 6   i have never heard of so many people saying such nasty things about a 1 yr old! you don't need to keep her locked up she is learning and you just have to lead her in the right direction. good luck and please enough with the horrible comments!

Answer 4

That's truly awful! I would never ever tolerate my child abusing animals! It's not the dog's fault your kid is a brat. You need to step up and take some action. She sounds metally disturbed. Poor dogs!

Answer 5

Sit her down on her own and talk to her. Make it very clear that it is not acceptable to hit people or animals. Threaten to take away her favourite toy, rather than hitting her, which seems a bit hypocritical.

Answer 6

try using some emoitional face cards make or print off some faces happy sad angry upset etc..... and show her how it makes you feel when she does these things. also show her how happy other things make you like when she eats her food or goes to bed build up from simple things she alreay does well

She may be seeking attention albeit negative attention for some children some attention is better than none and it doenst matter if its negative - when she does something well praise her and give her lots of attention! try to keep the dogs out of her way and distract her when she is trying to go near to them

good luck

Answer 7

keep the dogs outside while she is there. Have a play pen in the corner. When she hits or bites or anything pick her up, say NO! and put her in the playpen for 1-2 min. then get her out again. (no toys in pen) everytime she misbehaves put her back in. She will soon learn that the behaviour is not good

Answer 8

More and more we are finding that children are actually coming out of the womb emotionally disturbed.

You could take her to an analyst/counselor person to see if they can figure out why her behavior is so violent. Professionals may be able to point out a chemical imbalance, but that's not very likely... little kids are just nutsy sometimes.