Daughter manipulated and lied to me?

Question

I am so furious with my daughter right now. She is 7 and she had plans to go on a playdate with one of her friends after school but she got in trouble at school for cheating on a test and just had the most horrible attitude that I made her call her friend and cancle. Partly this was my fault I just listened for the first half of the convo where my daughter told her she couldn't come over and I thought I would let her vent for a few moments before I made her take a nap. Well after about 15 minutes when I didn't hear anything coming from my dughters room I peeked in and what do you know she isn't there. I call her friends house and there she is. I can not believe my daughter did this. She is 7 I thought I had 6 more years before I had to deal with this sh*t! She is going to be grounded for3 weeks (no friends, tv, electronice, dessert 6:30 bed) and at least one sound spanking. IS this too harsh, she is only 7 but I want to make an impression

Answer 1

No, better to nip it in the bud.

Answer 2

it is not though it seems so but you should sit her down arfter and have a stern chat with her before she rebel again

Answer 3

What your daughter did was wrong.

But what you portray here in yourself is worse and your daughter is learning from the best.

Answer 4

I think u did the right thing hope it teaches her a lesson if not do it again

Answer 5

I do not think so,If you do not teach her now it will only get worse.good luck to you.