hello I have a 16 year old daughter named caden, she is going to graduate highschool this upcoming year she will be 17.
my 18 year old daughter just got home from a party.
and now my 16 year old caden came up to me and told "mom can we talk please"
she said:
"mom i'm graduating highschool this year and i just want to let you know that the way things are happening here will change, i will no longer be kept here like a slave i will go out and enjoy my life and go out and party and drink, i'm sorry but i am really sick of the way you guys have been treating me, i can't go anywhere without you or dad following me, and i behave more than perfect"
how do i take in all of this? to know that my daughter is in a sense threatning me that she will leave the house when she graduates from highschool?
I understand that i have been very strict but she is my child and i deeply love, she always ask me to go out to concerts alone and i say no, only if your father comes, she tells me she wants to stay out till 11 pm and i say no that is too late for a 16 year old to arrive home.
how do i possibly deal with this?
I have four other kids
three girls 1 boy
the boy is 14
two of the girls are twins and are both 10
and the other girl is 5, my oldest daughter is 18.
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