Daughters father alcoholic-Thanks to everyone who answered. I have kept all of the text messages and

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voicemails. There is 1 order done in 2001 stating he has visitation sundays from 7-5. it was done when he was in jail. He's not scared of jail..been there a dozen times. I'm at my wits end and I'm tired of dealing with his c**p. Ive been with husband now for 5 yrs...and life is wonderful except for the ex. What to do?

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I hear what you're saying.  I'm a guy but also have the ex from h**l.  No jail...just huge emotional issues and abusive verbally.  I found there was nothing legally I could do unless I was physically threatened so I had to wait 16 years until my child graduated from high school.  In the last 2 months, my life has been relatively blissful and serene.  Yes..I still get the harassing phone calls, text messages, etc, but I never return a call and never respond to a text because...

I can now legally do what I feel is in the best interest for my son directly with him without having to deal with her.  And I don't have to worry about ridiculous legal consequences because I have no legal obligation...only a moral one which I do take seriously.

So it's actually become a bit fun to listen to the ranting and the raving because it means not a thing...it's just the roar of a toothless tiger.  :)  

So there is hope.  It just takes time to get to the light at the end of the tunnel.

Good luck to you!