My wife and I have been together for 3 years, married for 2. When we initially started dating we discussed our past sexual partners. Although I'm no way near sainthood, I was honest, and one of the things that attracted me to her was the fact that she had a low number of past partners. About 6 months after we'd married, I overheard her and one of her friends were talking about some guy she'd slept with about a week before we met. I confronted her about it and she fessed up and it turned out that she'd been with about 4 times as many guys as she had originally told me; not to mention that she'd never been faithful to anyone she's dated. I know (logically) that she is not nor has she ever cheated on me. But in my gut...I have doubts. It's beginning to affect our s*x life and our marriage. I know that it is me that needs to get over it, especially since she's been nothing but wonderful to me....but how?
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