Dealing with trust issues? /:

Question

so, i dated a guy about a year ago, and was pretty much head over heels for him. and at this time had so much trust in anyone i met. but, towards the end of our relationship he started treating me really badly, and lying a lot. needless to say i broke up with him /:

and since then, i've been with various guys who all turn out to be not what they seem. all of them would say things and go back on them, and all of the above. but now im talking to someone who i think might actually be the real deal, but i still question everything he says, and kind of think im pushing myself away when i REALLY dont want to.

has anyone been in a similar situation? how do you get past itttt?

Answer 1

ye i have, it's hard.  All you can do is get to know him well before you completety let yourself fall for him. But if he does turn out to be like the rest well at least you know you'll be able to handle it and that it's not the end of the world so give him a go, you never know if you don't try

Answer 2

You know you should never do anything  with what you don't feel comfortable with --- Thats the last thing yo u wanna do trust me ---- You will regard it  

Answer 3

Trust is based on information about the person's credibility. They will give you that information themselves: it slips out in their conversation. Instead of brushing damaging data aside, take it very seriously. And if you're receiving information that the person is sincere, take that seriously, too. Weigh the data and decide whether the person can be trusted and to what degree.

Answer 4

you will never  truly get past it,its called growing and learning.They say first love is never forgotten , because its your first and a new experience.as life goes on you will love and trust again but you will never be as naive  as you once were.good luck in life and love and dont look so hard for love and relationships they will happen