Dear LGBT. I need your advice. Why does this happen again? I thought I got over him but...?

Question

I had feelings for my math teacher for over a year...and during the holidays, I thought I got over him.

I joined school, and seeing him again kind of brought back those feelings.

I know it's wrong, and I try my best not to think about him, or avoid him....but he's a teacher, so can't avoid me.

I guess I needed more time.

Probably these are just my old thoughts....but when I go to bed....all the feelings start bothering me.

I thought I moved on....but why did this feeling come back again?

I don't like it...don't want it.

I was temporarily back being me, happy....but once again, I'm that old troubled teen.

I guess that's because he is my first?

Please,. I need good advices and your opinion and support.

Don't tell me to get over it or he'll go to jail...I know those already.

Just tell me what can I do now....I don't wanna go back to that place I moved on from.

It sucks, and I'm scared...I don't want him...but....it's complicated.

Please give good advices, and no rude comments please.

thanks.

*Best Wishes*

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Answer 1

aww, just let you feelings be just that feelings. let them be. sooner or later, youll get over him.

Answer 2

IS it just a crush or did something happen?

If so, that's a gross abuse of his position, you should tell someone, honestly. If nt, it's a crush... just write his name in hearts on your textbooks and m********e to teacher fantasies.

Answer 3

just keep in mind that the feeling will pass sooner or later if he's not meant for you, my friend

Answer 4

You can't get over him because you didn't do anything about it. Maybe give him a gift because he had been a great teacher. Just give him something postal. Doesn't have to be direct frontal love thingy, and with cards saying "I love you". Just thank him for all the lesson he gave you.

Answer 5

When I was in HS I had a crush on my English teacher. He was really a nice guy, and I started hanging out with him, and I was lucky that the crush changed and developed into a friendship. You can try getting to know him. He probably has a significant other, and when you realize that you can maybe start being friends.

Good luck.