lost a close friend of mine last September. She was 22. she died with her 1 year old son and her sister in law in a car accident. At the time of her death she and I hadn't talked in 4 years and I didn't know she had died until almost 3 weeks later.
3 weeks after she died another friend died. he was also 22. Also in a car accident.
Then back in March I lost another friend, he was 21. He drowned after getting drunk so he could do a really stupid dare. He should've known better.
I am not a religious person, I'm agnostic, but after all this I've turned to religion to try and help me cope. Whether I will join a church or any religion in particular is still up in the air. Right now I just want to get better.
Well about 2 months ago my dead friends started appearing in my dreams. The first friend never talks to me in my dreams but her son is always playing with me. I never met her son when he was alive. Usually when the 2nd friend appears in my dreams he's always playing basketball (He was an athelete). I'm usually sitting in the bleachers watching or playing some 1 on1 with him when the baby appears again and wants to play some more.
I swore that if the 3rd friend ever came to visit me in my dreams I was going to punch him for the stupid thing he did. when he did appear I was going to punch him when the baby appears again wanting to play some more.
someone at work, who is really religious, said that if a deceased loved one appears in your dreams, it's their way of telling you that they've crossed over or something like that.
that being said, can anyone interpret this? My friend said that it's just her son making up for the time I never got to have with him. I'm open to dream analysis, religion etc.
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