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Depressed Libra Man - How to help a deppressed Libra Man?

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I am a Leo woman and I've dated 3 libra men and I noticed this pattern in them. I'm currently dating a Libra. He is a wonderful person but I've noticed Libra men tend to be very happy and then they get depressed for no apparent reason. How can I help? What can I do to change this? How can I get him out of his slumber?

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  1. Well, it would depend on the level. Try to get him to talk to a primary care physician. People sometimes assume that life is making them depressed, and it can sometimes be something as simple as a thyroid level being slightly off, low blood pressure, low magnesium and a variety of other conditions. Other than that, there are medications which work well to help a person cope through the more difficult times.

    Also, listen to him? Tell him that you care about him. Try to get him involved with hobbies and interests which can divert his mind from going into the patterns of dwelling on the same things over and over.


  2. the problem with Liberians are they tend to weigh things up too much, always trying to balance things out and of course this cannot always work, so maybe as a strong Leo maybe you can try to do something absolutely spontaneous together shake the pattern and see what happens from there?

  3. we get depressed VERY EASILY...and you're right, the smallest things can make us depressed. It could be something as simple as me sending a text message and the person not replying, but in contrast something just as simple could cheer me up such as you calling me to see if i wanted to go out to party or see a movie or something. Or even just to let me know you were thinking about me and wanted to know how i was doing

  4. ice cream

  5. libra and leo are a perfect match! sorry, had to get that out of my system. I am a capricorn, my fiance is a libra (I know we are not compatible in any way shape or form....).

    Libra can go topsy turvey at times up down on their scales. its ok. it is natural. cancer is moody and libra is 'unbalanced' at times. libra does get depressed and sulky from time to time.

    if you want to pull him out of his down moods instead of just letting him crawl out on his own, then all you have to do is look for some people. libra can be "2 faced at times" in the sense that they can be nice and happy go lucky to someones face, but then miserable (even about that person) behind closed doors. they put up a happy front and so if you want to make a libra happy, bring them out of the house. they need fun anyways, but they need to be wined and dined sometimes too. they need to be out of the house so they have opportunities to mingle and be social with others if they feel the need. my libra can't go ANYWHERE without making a friend and getting phone numbers (he never calls the guys, but it brightens his day!).

    bring him to people or invite his friends over for a gathering at home. libras enjoy shopping, eating out, evaluating 'art' or beauty with others. if they like cars they will tell you what is beautiful or artistic about the design and image. give them opportunity to talk about something and to meet others and to get out of the house.

    some signs stop going out after they get close to each other. but Libra needs to date until they die! they really need to go out places as they are so social and need mental stimulation.

    my fiance eats fast food every day, but if we go to a real restaurant he feels like he actually did something positive with his day, like he treated himself. today we went out to eat and he said "wow, it is so nice eating out, It makes me feel so human" I laughed it off and called him corny, but you get the idea.

  6. anal s*x

  7. Take him to a amusement park.

  8. Take him shopping! Also cook him a nice dinner and tell him how much you love him and tell him how much you like his body! Trust me, I'm a Libra and all of these have worked for me. You won't have a hard time giving your attention to your loved one, you are a Leo after all ;)

  9. Talk to them. They are depressed because they expect a lot from people and sometimes people disappoint them and it helps them to talk it out. Change of scenery, something lovely around them, and a good friend to talk to seems to work well.

    (Love my Libra friend. Mom is a Libra, too.)

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