Depressed Scorpio, for Scorpios to answer.?

Question

My husband was the perfect man for three years. Then family started interfering and we didn't have the money to move out on our own. Now he's really sad all the time, and "needs" a beer. I don't know how to lift him out of his mood. I'm a pisces, so I get scared that it's me. Am I every going to get my old husband back? or should I just let it go?

Answer 1

talk, though he is your husband i dont know if you feel you can talk to him on a gut level or maybe you can but dont know how bc us scorpios can be hard to reach (but you've come to the right place- bc scorpios know how other scorpios work)

give him alot more s*x (get suppper creative and completely different though- it doesnt matter if it's the end of the world- do it like never before, it'll help his state tremendously), it's a release! s*x is a v powerful thing to a scorpio, it always is the answer.... then the "sauce" is. Im not going to lie okay!!! i went through a v hard time one year (beyond my control). your husbands need for a beer, was not only me, but that and 10x's over.

devise a plan- scorpios are best when they have a plan that involves all the things that they are passionate about. a scorpio w/o an outlet, will drink and a scorpio that's getting problems on top of the fact that have no passion to pursue can be v devastating...

good news is, we're known for rebirth... which alot of things can be destroyed during that transformation and a lot of truamatizing things can happen to ppl (including relationships)... but in the end he'll be okay, as soon as he says enough, he can start changing for the better at a rapid speed, attracting a better life, but we like to kind of hang out in h**l for a while, to figure things out...

so yeah email me if you like, ive soooo been there- i can help you sort things out.

Answer 2

In real world you have to see a partners counselor and take him to AA.Sound like he is hiding his emotions and the beer is being his friend when you CAN'T.

The sign has nothing to do with it.Addicting is real and it does happen to anyone at anytime.

Let's face the facts and tell him that you forgot who the man he is or was..

Most ppl under this sign tend to hide or runaway from what is bothering them.So help and ask in best way you can.

Answer 3

Ohh.... You should try venting... Get him extremely mad because I'm a scorpio and the only time I open up is when someone really close to me gets me upset.

Also tell him that you're disappointed in him and stuff like that because Scorpios hate to see that their loved ones get hurt especially by them.

Whatever you do, don't involve other people because I hate when i get upset and one friend tells one friend and that friend tells another...

I'm a scorpio who wants to help you out

Answer 4

Scorpios need to think things through for theirselves

scorpios are coy,  

scorpios have buttons that are not to be pushed, if you sting a scorpio the sting back is twice as bad.

when a scorpio is quiet let it be.

when your husband figures things out he'll come around.

in the meantime start saving and focus on what needs to be done put your minds to it and you will both succeed.

once again your husband of 3 years will be the perfect man.

good luck!

Answer 5

my mars is in scorpio, i would ya know give him alot of attention a back massage , kiss him on the neck and be like "baby plaese tell me whats bothering you." Say that your concerned about him.

Answer 6

Get him to talk about it.  Scorpios stress until they are able to vent.  Sit all of your/his family down in one room and let hime spill it or do something nice to lift his spirits, his birthday is coming up,  throw him a big party.

Answer 7

dude, get a marriage couselor. how can you expect people on yahoo answers to help you!!! get real.

Answer 8

Act normal, show him love and affection.

Do not nag him or go on and on about the problem.

In my experience scorpio men tend to hide in their caves but once they have had time to think, they are out there again BAM! just give him space and dnt be in his face too much

Good luck dear!

Answer 9

Another person can't stop someone from being depressed, no matter how hard they try.

Hopefully he has a job?  A good depression ridder is a GOOD SCARE.  And I mean, GOOD. Something life threatening or shocking.  Maybe a trip to the mental asylum is in order?  Or you move back with your parents for a while?  That'll scare the pants offa him.

No, it's not you.  It's ALL HIM.  Don't forget that!

Answer 10

As a scorpio, the only thing that gets me out of a funk is a wild night out.  Offer to let him go out and do whatever he wants with his friends, and don't involve yourself at all.  He'll love a little adventure.