Depressed after friend left for college ?

Question

A few days ago my closest guy friend left for college that is five hours away. I miss him so much and wish I could just hang out with him. Having him gone at a different college this year is making me really depressed and lonely. We used to do a lot together such as hanging out, working out, playing sports, video gaming, party, and much more. Is there things I can do to help miss him less and/or just feel better?

Answer 1

you should just cheer up and go hangout with other friends. im sure you'll feel better. and you can always vist your friend SOMETIMES but dont over do it.

Answer 2

I don't want to seem blunt, but just give it time. A lot of my really close friends have left to go to different colleges and I've had many experiences where I've been upset or sad that I will not be able to hang out with some of my friends that are faraway, even as far as across the country (i.e. California, I live on the east coast). When you go to college you will meet new friends and of course you will miss your old friend, but in a few months you will be fine. Besides you guys could hang out and do the old things during breaks and such.  

I personally don't think you can do much to miss him less because I've tried to become preoccupied but the thoughts still run through your head. Maybe it might work for you though, go on with your old routine, try to have fun, keep yourself busy.