Depressed! im 13 and i hate my life. help...?

Question

my parents just broke up about a month ago. within 2 days of them telling us that they were breaking up, my dad moved out.we rarely saw my dad before because he worked so much, now it seems like he wants to be with us every second of every day. i know he does it because he doesnt want to lose us, but its kind of annoying, having to leave your friends house to hang with your dad. now my mom has got a boyfriend, she hasn't told me about him, but i accidently read her txt messages... i dont know what to do, i feel so sad ALL the time. please help.

Answer 1

It seems that you are only thinking of yourself. Your mom is trying to move on with her life and you don't like her for it. Your dad is trying to remain in contact with his children and you're annoyed at him for that.

You should understand that this feeling of anger is only temporary. I may be old fashioned, but time heals. It really does. Remember that your mom and dad are going through a bad time and have you to worry about.  

Answer 2

you should ask your mom if you can get a therapist, if she says no to that, go into your school counselor and tell her/him whats going on, then they will most likely set up meetings with you during the school days. I know a therapist sounds kind of retarded but i went and she really helped a lot, I'm 14 so i know what its like being your age. Also if your extremely depressed go to your doctor and see if you should be on medicine. When it comes to your dad he will most likely cool down after a while a month isn't a very long time. Once he realizes that you still love him and that you aren't going to leave him, he will give you space.

Answer 3

maybe you need to express your feelings to someone

Answer 4

please dint do anything rash..you should talk to your mom and dad or other relatives..

if they don't want to talk seek help from your guidance counselor from your school

Answer 5

My parents divorced when i was two, and i have the same problems.

first off... you should be lucky to have a dad that is close to you. I only see my dad every other weekend, and it is awkward when we are in the car alone, cuz we don't really know each other well enough to start a conversation. And yes, it is annoying when you have to ditch your friends, but he is your dad, and he will always be, but friends come and go.

secondly, over time, you will learn to cope with the advantages and disadvantages of having divorced parents, after all, you cant do much about it because they are the ones that make the decision, and you can do nothing about it.

hope i helped      

Answer 6

when parents drift apart it's hard on the whole family.i really don't think you can do anything about mom and dad.but you should keep up with your dad.you know, call him at least twice a week.hey get a library card,it might sound boring but trust me .it's a start.when you go always take a friend.

Answer 7

well take friend to your dad to play as well  

Answer 8

Talk to your friends at school; discuss your issues with them. Some sympathy and empathy could make you feel better, and in the meantime, see a counselor at your school. They can help you and give you a good way to address your parents so they understand what you're going through and how they can improve the situation, which, in this case, is by not hanging on you too much.