Depression from not bein abel to have contact with my sister :( ?

Question

hi to any one who can help me.I'm 19 and live with my boyfriend.i have a younger sister who is 12 and will be 13 in september.my mum seems to be playing with my head at the moment saying she will bring my sister round to see me as me and my mum don't have any contact as we fell out when me and my boyfriend got together.I'm very close to my little sister and we both want to see each other but my mum said yeah she will bring her round so i can see her but i found out she were messingg with my head all along itsgettingg me down and very depressed.all i seem to do is cry n cry as i miss her loads i think it has something to do with my mums partner.as hedon'tt like me what can i do to see my sister as she is only 12 i love her so much i can not bear to not see her please some body help

Answer 1

what about ringing your home when everyone is out apart from your sister. Could you go to your sisters school and see her there? The school might be able to help you as they must deal with probs like this

Answer 2

There must be a reason why your Mum doesn't want her to see you. Could it be the boyfriend? Could it be that you are not living to improve your future? If this is the case, than they may not want your little sister to follow in your footsteps and are protecting her. But, why can't you just go home and visit? Why don't you speak with your Mother and step-father and find out what the issues are? If you already know what the issues are, then you already have your answer.

Answer 3

does your sister have access to a computer/cell phone. If not, see if you can get her one so that you can stay in contact. Maybe talk with a friend of hers and set up a time where they can be out together and then you can join them.