Desperately in need of advice, patience running thin.?

Question

My ex boyfriend and i had dated for about two years, it was the longest relationship for both of us, we broke up about a year ago neither of us have dated anyone else or slept with anyone else. We were through a lot when we were together and both share the same std now. we still talk almost everyday and still care about one another and on occasion hang out and sometimes when we hang out we end up having s*x. he said he doesnt want to be with me because he doesnt want a relationship right now but i love him as much as when we were dating. i havent brought up gettin back together in awhile but i really want to be with him, what do i do or what do i say, im out of ideas and care about the kid dearly and it would absolutely kill me to see him with anyone else.

Answer 1

please leave the zero and find a hero ... you deserve so much more than that .. ((p.s. and I also agree with the other poster on some things))......=)

Answer 2

I know this is not what you want to hear. And every-time i give an honest opinion someone reports me to yahoo. So hear it goes, if he is sleeping with you and still he does not want to be-together in a serious relationship, this usually means that he is playing the field. I have a lot of experience with this situation. I was dating a cop and he was seeing four girls at one time. I was the first to question him and the first girl to find out the truth about this man. I loved him so much and it hurt like h**l, but i needed to find out the truth. He would say stuff like" I love you but i am not in love with you.All the while he was sleeping with me and i am sure all the others as well. When a guy uses your body and does not want a commitment that is a red flag to me saying he wants his cake and eat to. Stay away and guard your heart.