Desperately needing help!!!?

Question

Ok very complicated situation…

Ok, I am married but have recently fell in love with my best friend. The thing is, she is also female. Im not L*****n and have never even been attracted to girls, nor am I attracted to any, only her. And neither is she. She is also married and we both have young children. Neither of us would have done anything together had we not been pressured into it, by our husbands who obviously would have never even gotten all this started if they had known then what they know now. We love our husbands and don’t want to break up either family but want to give “us” a try, but also worried about how the kids would take it, and also our families.

Needing any advice, please just don’t be too harsh, I know this is bad.

Answer 1

follow ur heart ......or u will regret  

Answer 2

This dosn't sound like you have fallen in love with her, just that you are a little "Turned On" by her.  I think everyone has a sexual fantasy and maybe this is yours.

Sit down together and discuss the situation and if you decide that somthing will come of the relationship then you have some harsh choices to make.  Nobody can tell you the right one.  Good Luck x*x

Answer 3

Well, it will probably devistate your husbands, deeply confuse your children depending on their ages and will most probably cause conflict with family members.

Besides that though, that's kinda hot.

Answer 4

dont do it, it will eventually leave everyone hurt, and ruin your marriage.

I see this on a regular basis, after 10 yrs plus of marriage counseling, it never works out good for long.

Answer 5

Wow.  Well, you either need to do one or the other.  Stay with your husband and family and cut all contact with her because then the temptation will always be there OR let your husband move on and commit to trying a relationship with her.  Either decision will not be easy I suppose, but you cannot have both and expect either to last.

Answer 6

Don't do it no matter how tempting it is... it will not only break up your family eventually, it will also hurt your husband, kids and finally yourself..  

Answer 7

Tell your spouses and ask for some understanding. No reason everyone can't be a winner in this deal. Love does what love has to do.