Despite our long relationship there still a doubt I feel..?

Question

Me and my boyfriend is four years and six months together now.We've gone through a lot but surpass them all that is why we are still together but until now we keep on fighting because of simple things. Also I don't know if he has a future plans for us because he never told me about it but I'm not sure if he is just one of the boys who is not that vocal on what they are thinking and feeling. How can I know if there still a future for our relationship or I need to end it. Thanks!

Answer 1

why don't you just TALK to him about it?  Ask where he sees you two down the road.  If he doesn't see a future with you its best to know now so you can move on rather than staying in a relationship thats not going anywhere.

Answer 2

Communicate, communicate, communicate!  This will answer all the questions, and settle the little arguments.  If you two can't talk about the serious things in life by now, then you have no shot at it.

Answer 3

You didn't mention your age. Even if you started dating as teens, people change (drastically, in both development and maturity) in their 20's. 22 feels a lot different than 21, 26 will feel like night and day from 22.

A man who wants to marry a woman has no trouble speaking up. I'd say your relationship has run its course, and your intuition is kicking in. Would you want this insecurity while married? People do not change after the wedding, only get stronger in similarities and differences. I vote say good-bye, go live your life and find out who you are separate from any guy. That's the best way to ensure a permanent joining will be as the person you were born to be.