..Developing personality and being more outgoing!

Question

Hello,

I'm a sophomore in high school. When people describe me, it's usually as nice or quiet. I'm tired of being identified with the two, and want to have a striking personality. What are things I can do that can help me develop my personality or "find myself"? I participated in Basketball to try to be more outgoing but it wasn't really my thing.

Thanks so much!

Answer 1

Same here. One thing that always helps
Always smile. Laugh  at peoples' jokes, but know when to be serious. Don't be afraid to try new things.  When you see someone you don't know find a similarity and strike up a conversation, it will get you noticed if you do this constantly. especially when Going to parties.
DO NOT:
-Be  fake. People that are always trying to fit in make a fool out themselves all the time.

-Be desperate, everyone fits in somewhere. theres a reason for eveything.