Did I deserve to be dumped?

Question

Okay. My ex-boyfriend would call me constantly. We both worked a lot and we never got to see each other. At first, I didn't mind his calls, but then he started calling me every five minutes and I got annoyed. I had two deaths in my family within one week and I was so upset that I didn't even turn my cell phone on (that was the only number he had) for the whole week. When he called me at work after that, he broke up with me and said he never wanted to see me again. He didn't even give me a chance to explain. Did I deserve to dumped like that?

Answer 1

h**l no you didn't but obviously he was a douche bag. Seriously. You deserve a lot better than that.

Answer 2

Well he WAS being immature. Seeing it from his side i can why he got insecure. You were annoyed because he's calling all the time, then all of sudden you drop from the planet for a week. So raging boy ego wants to save pride and dump you before you five him the 'we can be friend speach he's convinced he's going to get". So I can see the reason he did it, but it's not a very good reason..and he's going to regret waiting to hear what actually happen. So at some point if he finds out, you can probably expect I so sorry....blah blag blah.

If he's under 24 I suppose you can of expect this behavoir in a guy more often than not, but if he's older you've got better options.

Sorry for you loss and you dserve better

Answer 3

h**l no sounded like he had more of an obsession than actually loving u cause if he actually loved u then he would let u explain

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Answer 4

First of all sorry for the deaths. I know that is really difficult, but life goes on! You wasn't deserved to be dumped because you had the hardest period in your life and you're ex-boyfriend had no feelings about that. Maybe he is not the one for you! The real opportunity, like you deserve, maybe is in front of you! Start meeting other people, you will forget your problems for a while.  

Answer 5

No you don't deserve to be dumped, but don't beat yourself up over it.   A person that calls every 5 minutes would be so annoying, I'd get a new phone number and tell him "don't call me, i'll call you."  Sounds like he has serious dependency problems.  I really really think you're better off without him.  Good riddance.

Answer 6

NO, deaths in familys are the hardest things ever, i remember when my grandfather died, my girlfriend gave me space.... it was soo hard!

You deserve way better, like serisouly, he doesnt even deserve you....

PS sorry for the deaths =[