Did I give him HPV???? : (?

Question

I have fallen hard for this amazing man, and we were coming close to becoming intimate so I decided that I should tell him about my hpv. At first it seemed to not be a problem with him. We started to have s*x (unprotected) but he quickly changed his mind after he had already put it almost all of the way in. I was miss informed by doctor that it isn't transmitted via mouth so I preformed oral s*x for him, but after further research on internet found that that wasn't safe to do for him, and I don't want to have given it to him. Please help.!!! doc. isn't help in much. WHAT TO DO?????

Answer 1

check out this website...it is very informative.  has all the information you need about HIV and STDS.  http://www.sexhealthguru.com/index.php?s...

Answer 2

i'm afraid you do not need to have a full intercourse to transmit hpv. it is enough that your intimate mucus have some sort of a contact to transmit it. it can also be transmitted through skin contact  in intimate area (so not even condoms are completely safe, which is a big problem).

if you have hpv in mucus of your mouth, it can be transmitted to him by oral s*x, but the articles i read don't have the same opinion on that.

but intimate contact you two had... that is a problem.

many people have hpv, have good relationships and share the problem so you will too. maybe it was just too much information for him at that point.

Answer 3

Your error was in having unprotected s*x...I know it "ruins" the mood, but its better to use a condom and be safe than spread infectio to your partner....i don't mean to preach ., but that's the facts!

Answer 4

Ask your doctor this: Doesnt everyone have atleast one strand of HPV? Yep basicly everyone has it so chances are you didnt give him anything he didnt already have. Remember the HPV commercial? Where the moms like "OH I WANT MY DAUGHTER TO BE ONE LESS TO BE INFECTED WITH ONE OF THE FEW CANCER CAUSING HPV STRANDS" People wil tell you its not true but ask your doctor only they know whats right, not Mr I got my Degree in the Cacker Jacks Box.