Did I really molest my past classmate in my email to her ?

Question

I graduated from university 6 years ago and I went away to another country. I have still remember a girl who was a classmate to me only in one course where she studied another major. She is beautifil & gentle. I tried to fing her email for a long time and finally I found it and I sent email to her before one year & I added her ID to my Messenger. After 4 months, I found her online on Messenger but her sister was online not herself. I knew from her sister that she was recently engaged. I sent another email to the engaged girl congratulating her gor engagement and she replied me and she looked much glad that I emailed her. After that, I sent to her another email telling her that I'm thinking of her sister (who chatted me) to be my wife and I told her that I thought of her to be my wife after I knew her in university.

She replied me and she looked that she cried and her email had a high emotion and I was much affected from her email. She looked much affected that I thought of her to be my wife.

I replied her a silly email. I said to her: why did you late in engagement although you was very beautiful ? can you, if possible, tell me the reason. However, you will be much happy when you wear your bridal dress in your wedding. This ceremony is a source of happiness to us even though we got older in age. She didn't reply me although I sent to her many emails regretting to her. I felt that I molested her in my email. I even feel much shamed of her and I feel that I am much silly and I lost my chance that I would perhaps get married of her sister.

Please tell me what can I do to make her forgive me ? Did I really molest her ? Please tell me how much I am stupid..

Answer 1

Why would you want to marry a girl you chatted with a few times? She was probably crying because she thinks you're a psycho stalker bothering her sister.

Answer 2

oh get over it.

You really need to find a nice local girl that you can talk to in person, because judging by your typing skills and grammar...you could easily get lost in translation with the whole emailing thing you are doing with these women.

Answer 3

you didn't molest her, but she may think you're harassing her.  She's engaged to be married, and you should just let it go and stop emailing her.  It could be causing problems for her and her fiance.

Answer 4

telling someone that they waited too long to get married can easily be taken badly. I am sure that she was upset about that. I am sure the reason she waited to get married was that she was trying to find the right person. If you are still interested in the sister, you will have to contact the sister directly, you obviously insulted the bride to be.

Answer 5

Stop with the emails to old classmates and their sisters.  You can't find a flesh and body person where you live to be your wife?

Answer 6

Molest is a physical abuse, means touching

From the distance, i'd say no but your probably harassing her.

Give it up--she's not intrested in you at all