Did I totally ruin an on line relationship with someone I was really starting to love or is there still hope?

Question

Met up with my very first b/f 30 years later on line. Chatted and talked on phone. Went on for 6 months. We were getting along so good and planned on meeting face to face. We're both married but are not in love with our spouses. I really felt this was going to work out but then, because I'm insecure, and because I had gotten into a terrible argument with my husband, I had two drinks (I'm not a drinker so this really hit me) and said some really horrible things to the person I was starting to fall in love with. Most of what I said was about his wife, and I mean some really bad things that he had told me in the past. Haven't heard from him since then. It's been a week. After acting out like this, which is totally not me, do any of you think there is a chance of reconciliation?

Answer 1

leave your husband then look for love the fact you'd look for more for what ever reason of no love or what ever its not a good start of a  realtionship no in my prespective he either will wait a week or 2 more to talk to u or and things will be differnt and if thats not the case then he probaly wont ever talk to you again because being hurt on very shakey grounds were u both at least should feel dishonest is a good indicater he was always having second thoughts

Answer 2

What about the poor slob you are married to?....You're a real class act.

Answer 3

Just because you're unhappy with your spouse doesn't mean you'll be happy with this other guy.  I say get a divorce and find someone new instead.