Did Korean men avoid to marry western women?

Question

one korean neighbour has married a white aussie woman and has a pretty son nowadays. On the day of his wedding his mom totally had refused to come. She shouted loudly to him: "Feel like a devil in disguise, if u didnt marry your own woman said she. In fact his mom was wrong, cause his white wife is a correct woman".

why some people are affraid to marry the women from other nations? We often have read some of the conservative opinions or negative comments such as "white girls are only good for nothing, white guys are lazy or the asians are ugly and short". It is really cheap and this negative statement only causes a heavy racial problems. It just becomes worse.

I should say: that would be called a bloody racial poblem or killing at each other with their axe.

Answer 1

I disagree entirely that you can make such huge statements based on their race.  No matter what the race, family structures are different family to family.  Also what is your definition of Korean?  Born in Korea but living in America, what about 2nd generation.

People in America who came over from another country often maintain the belief structure from that country.  2nd generation rebels from that belief structure, usually so far as to not even speak the language.  3rd generation goes back to their roots and culture.

Japanese people do have a lot of Western beliefs and cultures.  They are educated in both Japanese and English.  The businesses do a lot of interaction with American businesses.  So due to all that, it is natural for the two cultures to feel acceptable with each other.

Many Asian cultures want to preserve their heritage though and want their sons to marry a woman of the same culture.

I don't see not wanting to marry someone of a different race as being a racist.  There are a lot of characteristics in a friend that I wouldn't tolerate in a spouse.  In a spouse, we need similar views on raising children.  And race/how you were raised factors in there.  As an educated woman I would have a problem with a man whose family structure and race believed a woman should stay at home and not work outside the home.

I think it's too judgemental of you to assume that b/c you had a Korean friend who had a mother who didn't like her daughter in law that it somehow equals a nation being filled with racists.  As far as p**n stars go, yes you want to watch what is different.  In a nation with mostly black hair, almond eyes, and tan skin--it only makes sense they would be drawn to blonde hair blue eyed, since it's not common.