Did anybody trick their mate into getting them pregnant? how did that work for you?

Question

Did anybody trick their mate into getting them pregnant? how did that work for you?

Answer 1

no because i am not so desperate for a kid that I am willing to commit myself to a life of single motherhood before Ive even started. Its a lot harder on your own. If you had to trick them, then they arent going to stay around, since they did not want to be a father in the 1st place.

also, did i mention its not fair to force that on him, its a pretty big thing to have a kid, he should have a choice about whether he wants to be a dad.By taking that away from him, youre not even treating him as human.

Answer 2

Talk about playing with fire!!! It's never good to trick anyone! More than likely, if that person found you you tricked them, they will resent you and probably leave you. Is it worth it????

Answer 3

Hah..You make me laugh..

I would say that doesnt work well, especially if they find out..

Lol..

Just slyly bring it up with your partner, you never know, they might like to have a baby..

Answer 4

when my now husband and I were dating I told him I was sensitive to latex and couldn't use condoms so we had unprotected s*x for 6 months before I conceived our first child. that was 6 years ago and we are married and on baby number three so I would say it worked out just fine for us.

Answer 5

I didn't necessarily trick my husband, but when we decided to have our third and last I told him it could take a few months to get pregnant. What I didn't tell him was I was tracking my ovulation. It was the first time I had done it and I wasn't sure it would work. Obviously it did because it only took one try to get pregnant. HE just thought I was extra horny. lol. I told him later after our daughter was born and he just laughed at me and said "a little determined?".

Answer 6

I can't imagine how rotten it would be to raise a child with someone who you know you tricked into making that baby. Don't you want to have a child with someone who's a willing participant?

Answer 7

That's just wrong

Answer 8

Why would you trick your mate into conceiving a child? Whatever floats your boat id say. Just tell them Latex makes you itch lately, or tell them you have gone on birthcontrol. Maybe one of those things will work.

Answer 9

well i have a friend who did this, he didnt want kids and was irate w/her, now the kids has no father

Answer 10

If you have to "trick" someone into doing anything, its not a good idea.  If they don't want chiildren, thay may leave.  Bring a child into a relationship where there is two stable, willing, and ready parents.

Answer 11

Yes, and when she found out she cut it off.. =(

Seriously though, that's a horrible idea.

Answer 12

My brothers wife did that. He married her, she divorced him 10 months later and moved 90 miles away to live in a getto.  As it turned out she just wanted a baby and used his sperm to get one.  

Men .... never leave it up to a woman for the birthcontrol.