Did i do the right thing to tell him that i won't run after him?

Question

Is is normal if a Virgo doesn't let hear anything of him for 2 weeks? I didn't hear anything from him and i've called him twice and send him 1 sms. Since then i did not call him anymore i have told him once that it look like that i always have to run after him and i can't do this like always. Now i'm like ok if he calls me ok and if he doesn't fine because i hate it to be always the person to call you know. Are there more Leo's like that? And more Virgo's who don't reply on calls or sms? O.k it could be that he's busy or something but when i ask him your very busy huh he is like nah it is o.k. I don't mean to say that he have to call me always or something but it would be nice if he did call me sometimes you know other friends do call me sometimes. I swear Virgo man are confusing

P.s we are friends not lovers!

Answer 1

yeah, it sounds like friends

lol

EDIT:

how about yur pocket..lol

Answer 2

I once dated a Virgo...He was the same way...they seem to get busy and just focus more one the things they are busy doing rather than keep other stuff nagging at them....they are usually more likely to finish things they have started too....I wouldn't think too much of (especially if you are just friends)...you have your own stuff and he has his own stuff - you know?! Just call when you fell like it and let him call when he feels like it - no big deal...try not to think too much into stuff...you know what happens when you start to assume stuff right?! LOL...if not - email me and I will explain further as I don't think the community would appreciate it if I repeat the old phrase here on Y!A...lol! ;)

***EDIT*** what's with the TD's?! No offense to people - I was just trying to lighten the mood a bit!

Answer 3

I think you did the right thing. Relationships must always be a two way street. What kind of a friend isn't there when you need them? Not a very good one. What kind of friend doesn't return phone calls? Not a very good one. Most Virgos are wonderful people, and if they're your friend they will go out of their way to be there for you.  

The trouble is stemming from the fact that you didn't mean it when you said you weren't going to run after him, because I'm sure you literally have to sit on your hands to keep from calling him again.  If you do that, you will appear to be a doormat, and where is that going to leave you?  I think there might be more than friendship on your mind with this guy, but I could be mistaken.

I had to cut a  friend of mine lose much the same way because it was becoming a one sided friendship. I was sick of being the one to reach out for contact all the time and then one day it dawned on me that the only person who gave a d**n about our friendship was me. I don't need people like that in my life. No one does.  You were subtle about it in the past by telling him you don't like to be the one to always contact him. Obviously, he didn't care.  Now you have told him you aren't going to chase after him and that STILL wasn't enough to start getting flow in the other direction. I think that he isn't a friend and I think that you need to start feeling better about your decision.

Answer 4

if you're just friends, then ease up a little. Leo's are very high maintenance and always need reassurance so i'm not surprised by your actions. my best friend is a Leo and is very needy. maybe you want to be more than friends? maybe he is busy, but says he isn't when you call him because it's just what people say. And guys just don't call unless they are dating you or are making plans with you to hang out. that's just how most guys are.

Answer 5

Poison the guy. If he isn't man enough to answer or tell you straight up that he has another gal or has no interest to be friends, Let him run and when he is out of breadth, go the extra mile to make sure he isn't following you. If he cares, he'll call. Virgo analyze left and righ, up and down. They nag on top of that. Get a nice Aquarian like me.

Answer 6

Funny you say this.  I'm a Virgo male, and I hate the telephone.  I rarely will answer the phone and prefer to get a message then call back if it's worthy of my attention.  I prefer electronic mail.  

Answer 7

trust me,virgo men r a nightmare!I have 2 of them!my dad and a friend!!

anyways,I think u did the right thing,because if u run after him,h**l think u want something from him,just leave him,h**l call u someday!

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