Did i just s***w up everything?

Question

hey everyone well i was talking to this guy im close to and he asked me why i dont have a boyfriend. i told him ive been hurt and i dont want to put myself in a vurnerable position again. he was saying not all men are like that, i cant let one bad experience ruin my hopes etc.. Well at the end of the conversation i told him i was not interested in men right now and no one under the age of 25. ( he's 20) he asked if i would be able to change my mind on the age thing and i said no. After i realized i think he was asking about himself, and now im starting to like him a little bit. Have i screwed up everything? Thanx in advance!

Answer 1

the kind of random questions that you come up with.........

Your name isn't alexandra is it? and you dont live around the corner from me do you? cause ur stories are about as werid as hers...

(in other words everyday it's a different guy with a different problem)

Answer 2

Why are you worried about s******g things up? You have already stated that

1) you don't want to date right now

2) He doesn't meet your requirements

You want a guy who is a certain age for a reason. If you are going to have that rule, stick to it. And you've started to like him AFTER he expressed interest in you, which means you are probably just a little lonely and the attention flattered you. Not the guy himself.

Answer 3

make a little joke out of it. next time the convo comes up be like ya i probably wouldnt date anyone that young, unless it was you of course ;)