Did i mess up with this guy?

Question

im a freshman in highschool, and i noticed this guy and hes 16 and a senior in highschool. apart of me is telling me that im aiming for the wrong guy because he's too old grade wise, btw thats whatever.

heres the story: he & i have exchanged looks, and I've tried

to make small talk with him and stuff. hes laughed when I've tripped and stuff during marching band and stuff. on another day i accidently threw my drill papers at him it was an accident and he just laughed. ive basically complimented him and stuff. i asked him if he could help me with drill moves, and he said "sure, but i don't know if im any good." since last year was his first year in marching band. so then we made plans to do it during lunch, but i couldn't find him. so i ask his friends and they say "him? oh you don't want to ask him. what was your question about marching?" so i made up a fake answer, and then left. when i finally found the guy i made plans with, i WAS going to tell him i liked him. but never got around to it.

today i was sitting on a bench after practice waiting for

my ride and he drives by and just looks at me through

his sunglasses.

WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THIS?!

did i s***w things up?

should i leave him alone?

im freaking out, and i hes been on my mind a lot.

>> full points to best answer.

Answer 1

kk age gap bullshit. ur like what 14. honey when ur 60 he'll be 62. forget the age gap. you like him rite thazz all that matters. here's the thing about older guys. they are highly egoistic. they consider younger girls to be immature b****es. trust me i know what im saying. youve got to talk to this guy in a real smart way, almost as if you were older than him. prove to him you aint no childish piece of s***.  heres the thing dont ever offend him.. BE MATURE. MATURITY IS THE KEY. thats how i messed up my life. by being immature. and im trying to fix it.

Answer 2

the exact same thing happened to me last yr excet i'm not in band. and i felt the same way as you do. but if he likes you then he will come back for more. becareful w/ those seniors though, they are trick haha. just talk to him and say that you ooked for him and his friend said that he didn't know. just keep flirting and smiling and laughing and eventually it will all work out fine, good luck!!

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Answer 3

how is he 16 and a senior? thats messed up.

Answer 4

Tell him you like him.

Answer 5

No i dont think u did

Answer 6

well I'm assuming that he likes you from everything you said,but I know hes definently interested,  he might just think of you as a friend im not sure but just go with the flow for a while like just flirting a little, let him come to you and you'll know. play hard to get i that doesnt work be straight foward tell him you like him.  also since your a frshman im assuming your 14 so 2 years isnt that bad so hes not too older than you so go for it.