Did it ever hurt when you love somebody and they sent you away?

Question

i loved my nana with all my eart but i found it hard to forgive because she'd sent me away to live with me uncle who was abusive. i thought she loved me and ever since then i never forgiven her.

Answer 1

You have to know she would not have sent you away knowing the uncle would have been abusive.  If she could have saved you that trauma, I am sure she would have.  Think about what she was having to deal with in order to have sent you away.

Answer 2

Yes, Sunshine, it does hurt.  Forgive her for no other reason but to set your self free from some of the pain you had to carry because of her stupidity.  If she only knew that your uncle was an abuser, she may have never sent you there.  Let it go and move forward with life.  The uncle needs a lesson in abuse though.  I would definitely get even with that old b*****d.

Answer 3

yes hun it hurts dreadful, but the best thing u can do for ur heart and life is forgive her and go on with ur life, it is going to be hard, but it will be best or it will ruin ur life  

Answer 4

let go of the things of the past baby

Answer 5

It does hurt. But u should ask why she did it. Maybe she did have the finances but she wanted the best for u. Maybe her health wasn't at its best. Don't let it ge u down and don't hold on to it. U have to forgive her, but it would make it easier if u talked to her about it.

Answer 6

aww no i havent but im sorry to hear what happened!

you should forgive your nana, im sure she was only doing what she thought was best for you :)

Answer 7

I know what it feels like to have a relative turn into something that you cant stand, and you have to adjust to it.  But old granny should have been more responsible, instead of sending you off to some abusive a*****e.  no offense.  But if grandma couldnt take care of you, she should have given you to a better relative.

Answer 8

Your nana may not have known he was abusive unless you told her. Is she alive still? Is there a way you can talk to her about it now.

You can not change the way things have been in your past, but you can take control over the things that will happen in the future.

Answer 9

yes my mother sent me away and i never forgot it.

Answer 10

best to let go and get on with your life.

Answer 11

i loved my best friend and he still treats me like i'm nothing and won't admit it.  

Answer 12

Does it hurt when somebody you love sends you away?

Is there some OTHER answer to that question?

Of course it hurts!!!!!!!!!!

As for your situation......don't be hating Nana,......how was sh suppose to know the jerk would abuse you............maybe she was just trying to do what's best.

on the other hand.,,........if she KNEW the louse was a pr*ck.........

then kick Nana to the curb............forget the past......and Live for better tomorrows.  

Answer 13

Look it hurts to know someone would do that to you i dont know tottally how its feels but im dealing with i divoursed family and it hurts it hurts just the way it hurts to be away from the person you thought loved you well let me tell you this SHE LOVES YOU yes she gave you away to a person who abuses you BUT SHE LOVES YOU she might not show it but she does she does alot i bet she broken inside that your gone i bet she sit in the room you used to sleep in and crys it all out but let me tell you this forgive her she did what was best for you all you need to do is do what is best for you forgive i know she does not know about what your auncle has done call the police or do some thing that will bring you uncle to justice cause he could be diong this to other kids or teens or adults but dont you DARE stay there and thing whyshe did what was right for you not knowing about your uncle know its your turn to do what is right for you its time for justice to be heard

Answer 14

She might not have known and if she did she might have though thats what was best for you at the time not the abuse part but the whole situation =\ you have to let things go that happen in the past even though its probably difficult.

Answer 15

Logically, such a behaviour deeply hurts each sensitive human being.

Answer 16

talk to her about it, and tell her he was abusive if she didn't know.

but I have not had that happen to me. well, actually yes i have.

I'm sorry that this happened to you.