Did my friend violate me?

Question

Me and my girlfriend went to a party and i got totally wasted I passed out on the couch and my best guy friend was smiling at me most of the night which i thought was kind of weird. Anyway i woke up the next day completely hungover on the floor in his bedroom and with my butt hole sore as h**l, So I used his bathroom and when I looked in my underwear there was a little blood. After that I went straight home and didnt tell anyone. Can my friend be trusted? Did he violate me?

Answer 1

are you serious??? first off, if he did he really isn't a best friend, other wise, ask him if he enjoyed it!

i just don't think you are serious with this one.

Answer 2

Sounds like he violated (Raped) you which is against the law. & criminal charges could or should have been filed against him.  

Answer 3

Oh-oh, it sounds like he had his way with you.

Unless you normally have bloody underwear? If not then maybe he did something to you in the backdoor. It does sound like it.

Maybe you should ask him. Next time I wouldn't get so drunk that you pass out.  

Answer 4

This is not even funny because it sounds like rape and rape aint nothing to be joking or playing about.  

Answer 5

It's rape, plain and simple. And it should be treated as such. If it was him, he really isn't your friend. Good Luck!!

Answer 6

hmmm dnt jump 2 conclusions but did u feel like som1 else hadbeen on top of u?, if u really think it ws him tell ur gf, or som1, or jst ask him, if so deck him

Answer 7

you never know if you were at a party there could have been alot of ppl there that could have violated you, the best thing you could do is talk to your friend and watch his recation. also see a doctor to make sure everything is alright

Answer 8

call the police immediately & have them arrested for using chemical

substances to make you incautious then "raping you" .

File a law suit againt them & take them to the court . They must

confess to the crime that they have commited against you .

It is not late . listen to me ! Do it "now" . Call cops.....  911  .

Answer 9

wow that sounds kind of creepy. michael jackson just came up in my mind. he probably did. and don't trust him

Answer 10

Look at the facts, they're right in front of you. The answer is yes, and that person is NOT your friend.

Answer 11

well, yes given the evidence. he did violate you.

Answer 12

That's why u don't get so wasted that you will pass out.  I have absolutely no idea what the h**l happened at the party.  And if he did rape you, then he's definitely not going to be ur best friend anymore.  Is he g*y?  If u thought he was straight, then maybe he really is g*y and he did butt **** u.  If there's no possible way he's g*y, then he probably didn't do it.  Who knows, if u were violated, it could've been someone else.  Idk man, but if u woke up in a different spot than u passed out at, then u probably did get violated.  That sucks man, but at least u've learned ur lesson.