Did my wife sleep with him?

Question

I recently caught my wife out with another man. She claims that she did not sleep with him, but I saw e-mails about meeting in parking garages at work. She claims that they were just talking. What do you think?

Answer 1

Who meets in a parking garage to talk?

Answer 2

doesn't sound good! I say she is sleeping with him. Sorry!!

Answer 3

I personally think that there is more going on than just talking.  Sorry.  

Answer 4

wow idk but it doesnt soung good but i wish you the best of luck

Answer 5

Paul I do not know your wife so do not want to make a judgment.  You however, have known her for quite a while so it is far more important what you think.  Personally I am a strong believer in gut instincts.  If your gut is telling you that she is messing with you and not being honest then I would go with that feeling.  Could be wrong but then you need to ask yourself also, does she have a history of lying to you etc.   Suppose you could ask the fella too but somehow I doubt that he is going to be 100% with you if indeed he is enjoying the company of your wife.  Best of luck.

Answer 6

I think if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck its a duck....

Answer 7

She's full of c**p. No one goes to a secret parking garage just to talk. If that's not proof enough...*I* personally know some one who used the parking garage to cheat because of the rare chance of running into some one you know (this was an aquaintance of one of my friends)

Answer 8

You won't know for sure unless she admits it...You could try sending him an e-mail pretending to be her and suggesting you guys had s*x to see if he takes the bait, but I would only suggest doing that if you are prepared for the truth...and her finding out you went behind her back to find out that information...but she did go behind your back and start meeting this man. That alone is cheating in my book.  

Answer 9

Doesn't matter what we think.  It's pretty much she's either cheating, or not. 50/50 chances.  You know her. If you've caught her in lies ever at all, the chances are better that she is.  Hope you can figure it out.  It sucks if she is, and it sucks if she isn't and you suspect she is.  No winners there.

Answer 10

she did him  you need to have a serious talk with her and decied what you are goig nto do  

Answer 11

definitely sleeping with him

Answer 12

Who sits in a car and talks,the e-mails have told you everything,I know your hurting and I also know that you generally want to believe her, after all who would have thought that you had married a jerk who would cheat on you,Ive been in your boat and when I was first catching on she would say things like we were just talking,trust me, the next revelation will be,well we did kiss once,that's bull,its all bull,your gut instinct is telling you something and because your hurt and shocked by the whole situation you are not thinking clearly,she is sleeping with him,I guarantee it,you know this deep down,I feel for you,that's a terrible situation to be in