Did something else happened?

Question

my husband received a message on his cell and it was a picture of a women from the neck down and it said look how i am right now "" and i confronted him and he told me it was a friend that he was think of cheating on me but that nothing had happened that they were just starting that they were calling each other only but that it was all over he asked me ti forgive him and swore it wouldn't happen again but i don't know just to imagine him with somebody else is killing me what should i do should i forgive him

Answer 1

I'm surprised he even told you THAT much.  Most guys would have said the chick had the wrong number.  Sounds like something more might have happened though.  What girl sends a picture from the neck down to a guy she hasn't slept with yet?  Isn't that slightly desperate?  I'm curious why her face was nowhere in the picture.  Maybe her body is all she has going for her.

Answer 2

well 1st of all good for you to call and confront her. that takes guts. I do believe other things have happened, he just isn't telling you. I would definatley put a stop to the calls erase the # and tell him if ANYTHING EVER COMES UP WITH YOU AND HER THEN WE'RE DONE! unless you can't deal with it, and then just get out of the relationship now. do what feels best in your heart.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I agree with the first poster. I can't believe he told you that much. Unless he told you that much as a cover to what else is going on. Like if he told you that much and was that honest then you have to believe him when he says nothing else is going on.

He broke your trust and needs to regain it. A lot of people cheat until they find the right person. I think he's bluntly putting it that he's not the right guy for you.

You need a guy that would never think of treating you that way.

Answer 5

He obviously has no interest in you anymore if he's even THINKING of having s*x with another woman..And I would NOT trust him after him telling you that...Get out before it gets worse!  

Answer 6

Well she has lied to you about being happy with her man otherwise she wouldn't have suggested or toyed with the idea of having your husband dip his stick in her.  They may have just started to get dirty.  Don't trust your man, fix your relationship you or he is bored and need to improve your s*x life.

Answer 7

I would get talking more, and find out whats really hapening, you may need counseling to save your marriage