Did u have an extremely high s*x drive...?

Question

when u met ur SO and it just slowly disappeared or did ur SO have one that happened to vanish and now ur thinking they were lying from the get go about having one??

Why do people lie about their s*x drives. Man if u have no s*x drive just say so but why lie and say u have a high one just to let ur partner see u never actually did then b4 u know it ur sexually deprived and cheating cosses ur mind?

I said crosses ur mind... big difference than acting on it so don't get ur panties in a bunch thinking I'm saying cheating is ok!!

So tell me, why lie about ur s*x drive? I think u should be honest w/ the person ur w/ so u can have a healthy happy s*x life. Those who lie can make a person become bitter!! I personally want someone that can keep up w/ me not lie and say he can when he knows he can't!

I ask this cuz I know quite a few people that obviously lied about having a high one or their SO lied and my question is WHY??

Answer 1

i can touch the sky, my s*x drive is sooo high, i've never lied about being horny all the time, i mean ALL THE TIME!!!  ask my hubby, who's drive is higher, he'll be the first one to say her her her!!!

Answer 2

I've never lied about my s*x drive.

The truth is, I love s*x and I've can never get enough s*x if I'm attracted to someone.

Answer 3

if i say i have very high s*x drive will you believe me? or should I prove it to you?

Answer 4

I'm breast feeding and I have had no s*x drive for over a year now...

I feel like an amoeba or something.

Answer 5

I have never met a person who could keep up with me!

Day or night, sickness and in health, dead or not, I am ready!

I just thought I was special!

Answer 6

yes babe. I have an astronomical high s*x drive.

I can do it 4 times a day, day or night, back to back to back.

any position, any way, for hours and hours and hours.

it's too bad I got married though, cause prior to getting married me and my wife used to do it 3 times a day, 3 times a week, every month, every year, for years and years and years.

now that we've been married for years. Im lucky if we do it once a month.

it $.....uck....s, and I even told her today as a matter of fact.

that If I could do it all over again, i would never ever ever get married.

not even if she had a superman cape attached to her a$$.

Answer 7

YES !!!! me,,,megasex drive, my wife has almost "0" s*x drive. Right after my wife's period her s*x drive will go up to about a 5, then declines. She has perimenopause, you know, hot flashes, irratable, no s*x drive,,you all have this to look forward to !!!

Answer 8

dunno...being honest is best

Answer 9

In each relationship there are always highs and lows, with everything.  You need to  talk these issues through with you SO.  s*x is important in a committed relationship, but it isn't the be all, but I know it does get very frustrating sometimes when one is out of kilter with the other.

Answer 10

My s*x drive is high than his, but when we were beginning our relationship they were the same.  Just because your SO doesn't have a s*x drive now, doesn't mean they lied.  There are several things that can happen to change a s*x drive.  So instead of insisting they lied, maybe you, or whom ever your speaking of, needs to talk to the SO to see what happened, or made things change.  Sometimes it's a medical issue that no one knows about until tests are done.

Answer 11

Pure,

We all go through highs and lows.. sometimes someone who couldn't get enough will get stressed over something and go through a long low period.. and then again.. how does one measure s*x drive?  I mean, a guy whose girlfriend wants it once a month, and he wants it once a week may think he has a high drive.. but hooks up with a three times a day girl and suddenly his drive seems low.. perhaps it would be better to ask someone.. can you handle it three times a day? haha...  

Answer 12

This Q caught my eye... I see that some people say that a s*x drive has highs and lows.  Mine doesn't, it's always on overdrive.  

Does that mean that I'm a freak?

Answer 13

Men are lying fleas ...they lie about everything and anything to get a woman!!! then they dont know what to do with them ..rrr

Wow Pure that guy John has a stick up his azz!!!

Answer 14

My s*x drive is so high, I went a few days without it one time, and walked past a fence post covered in barb wire and fire ants and threw it to the ground and made love to it-best I ever had. She scratched me to pieces. I nick named her pure evil.

Answer 15

Sing it loud Pure, I'm with you 110%...

You tell your partners, they say they love it.  They whisper all the right assurances to you.  They tell you how lucky they feel that you are their wild lover.  

Then you commit to them and suddenly they turn it around like you're the problem.  You get the look like "You want s*x AGAIN?" or "I'm tired" or my favorite "All you want is s*x".  It becomes a curse word in your relationship.  And then suddenly you're the bad person if you bring it up.

And the person who holds out gets all the control in the relationship.  

And yes I'm feeling pretty bitter today about it.

Answer 16

Pure, sweetheart, I love your questions!  :)  They are way too fun to read that's for sure.

I think that when you are single you do have a high s*x drive.  So it's short-sightedness -- the person doesn't think about what their s*x drive is like when they are coupled up and include that in their answer.  And yes it is lower for some people.

Answer 17

Yes i have a very high s*x drive.

And my wife had a high s*x drive for a while, but in the past year it has dwindled down to nothing. I can account this to stress, she HAS been very busy and pressured for the past year. However in one month this pressure will be off of her!

So now it's basically nothing. She even told me she doens't even get hrny, which leads me to belive it's a medical probelm dure to medications or lack of some chemical. SHe says She loves having s*x with me, but she doesn't feel that urge like she used to. She promises tha when she's done with school in a month, she hopes it comes back and if it doesn't she'll see the doc about it. I guess i have to suffer until then, She's worth it though..

You asked about thougths of cheating because of sexual deprivation, well to be honest, yeah the though had crossed my mind on more than one occasion. But I never acted on it. I don't have a women knocking on my door day and night begging to sleep with me.

Answer 18

Hello,

Your English is impossible, almost, to understand!

Is English a second language for you?

Please work on it.

It is relevant to your topic.

High and low are relative and qualitative terms.

What this means is that there is a lot of room for each person to have their own opinion on what is high or low. This, like poor English, leads to a lower quality of communication which may result in more misunderstandings.

So it may not be lies.

Cuz ya C they may think different then U.

Also, s*x is not like a light switch, "on or off",  for some people.

As they grow to love a person, and know that person's emotional and sexual needs, their ability to satisfy this person will often increase dramatically.

U all git wat im sayin to U?

I mean is there is no actual mOne person's, high, is another person' low...