Did you, are do you, felt/feel kinda lost in your teenage years?

Question

I having some trouble right now, i guess its growing up, but everythings changing,

and im not as happy as i always use to be, im doubting my friendships with people

and my personality has been changing, and i really dont know WHO i am, like i know, but i dont,

have you or are you going/gone through this?!

and i know itll pass, i guess

but most of the time i doubt it.

Answer 1

I'm 16. I fell the same way.

Answer 2

Hey I'm like that too. I've been feeling depressed lately, I feel like I'm missing out on things. I've been more tired and worried. It sucks doesn't it. But the best thing to know is that no one is alone in this.

Answer 3

i already webt through and youre just not sure y god put u on this earh or wether your current friends r real friends. Its just a phase dnt wrry bout it wat i got going on is a lot worse then wat your going through.

:(

Answer 4

This is very common at your age. I know it's going to be tough, but it doesn't really get much better and at a certain point you'll know exactly who you are. It'll just take some time.

Good luck!

Answer 5

I used to feel this way all the time when I was in high school (I'm 20 now). As I was trying to find myself, I went through several religious/ethnographic identities (first it was preppy Unitarian, then a gothic Atheist, then anime-ish Agnostic, then a hippy Pantheist/Pagan, then a "green" clothing wearing Yogini)  and alienated quite a few of my friends in the process.

Things start to fall into place when you get to college or into the work force. You still don't understand yourself completely, and sometimes you still don't know what you want out of life or what you want to do for a career, but the fog begins to lift about your third year of college. And your first two years of college? You're out having so much fun...who has time to question the big things?

This too shall pass. I promise. It doesn't feel like it now, but it will.  

Answer 6

YES!! I hate it.

None of my friendships are strong and i always have to bite my tongue because they annoy me so much-they have all changed. And no-one in my family pays me any attention, i just got my hair cut and nose pierced and literally no-one noticed (i mean aunties, cousins, grandparents)! I feel like i am changing to, i now can't be bothered to do most things and the only thing i am looking forward to is moving to Paris when i'm older.  

Answer 7

i went thru it in eight grade, lots of teens do, i just knew that eventually life lands us where we're meant to be, as long as we just keep trying and working hard, hope this helps

Answer 8

Sweetheart everyone goes through this its a part of growing up and making you stronger

do some soul searching and decide what person you want to be and not who people want you to be

In your teen life you will slip in and out of depression easily like day after day mood swings but later on you will find your self

good luck and lots of love :)