I have been working on a family tree for awhile, and started wtih my mom's side. When I got to my dad's side, he just gave a few names, and I went from there.
I found out from a cousin that my mom and dad didn't even meet until I was a few months old. She was visiting and saw the research I was doing, and started laughing at me, and saying I had to be doing this for my siblings, because my dad isn't really my dad. She said "everyone" knew so thought I should too. My dad told her to shut up, and told me it wasn't stupid, and to keep on working on it, but now it just feels fake.
I consider him my dad, and he treats me great, but since I found out his isn't even my dad, I feel it's kind of dumb to keep making up a family tree because it's not going to be "real". I could still do it for my brothers and sisters, but would I be a fool like my cousin said if I consider it my tree too?
Has anyone else come across something like this? What did you end up doing?
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