Did you make love on first night of your wedding?

Question

This is kind of survey which will provide me the answer to whether I should it myself or not.

Answer 1

nitin - indian right? - living in india? then there 2 options:

1. u have had a love marriage , u know the girl, love her - suggestion --> go for it!! full on or else she will most probebly kick u.

2. u have had an arranged marraige, met her 2-3 times in a social setting - suggestion --> hold on for sometime !! get to know her - romance her then go for it or else she will most probebly kick u. :D

but seriously, if an arranged marriage - plz give her as much time as she needs. she'll appreciate it - will b a major score in ur favour.

as for ur main question - well, i had a love marriage, so .......... :)  

best of luck!

  

Answer 2

It's really up to you and your partner. It is not a necessity and you shouldn't do it if you want to. Do whatever you want to do.  

Answer 3

It depends on person to person. How yu know each other. How you both are familier of the love of 1st night. It all depends and at last desire to have a love at 1st night is also important.

Answer 4

who wouldn't make love on the night of their wedding?

Answer 5

Yes...we did. Infact..knowing each other for around 6 months after engagement...u feel curious to see and touch what other has got.... :)

Answer 6

my then-fiance was adamant we would but i was more skeptical. turns out we didn't until the third night! the night of our wedding we were exhausted and got to our hotel at close to midnight, and we had to get up at 4am and be checked into the airport by 5 in the morning, so we fell asleep. We had a trans-atlantic flight, and by the time we got to our destination, we had spent close to 15 hours traveling AND our luggage was left behind, so that night we were too worn out and jet lagged and even fell asleep on the couch still eating our pizza. Finally by the time the third night rolled around, we had rested, gotten our baggage, and were very much the happy newlywed couple ;) You really can't predict if you will or won't :D

Answer 7

i didn't. we were too tired but we did it on the second night when we were more relaxed and could have more fun

Answer 8

Of course. I've only heard of one other couple who didn't. I had an aunt and uncle who didn't. They just didn't want to, were too tired etc. Frankly the wedding day is hectic already I don't see the harm in either waiting or not. who cares? It's your wedding night! whatever makes it most special!

Answer 9

We were tired too - but we did it!  You only get one wedding night (hopefully!) so I am glad that we were able to have ended the night with something special.

EDIT:  And we did not wait until marriage to have s*x - just wanted to add that!

Answer 10

Of course I did but very carefully as I was heavily pregnant.

Answer 11

well cant answer your question m single..... sound idiot to respond.. well maybe...

Answer 12

If  it  is  love marrige  then  I will  give  a thumbs up   but if   it  is  a  arranged  marrige  then    you  have to wait  for some more days  and understand  her  becos  she is new to u  &  u donot  know  what her  like & dislike or  her interest.  Also I donot  did not remember actually what happened in that night  but  I was very tired the next morning sure.

Answer 13

I think this is something you should talk about with your wife, not strangers

Answer 14

No, it was very late, so we waited until the next evening. No big deal, to be honest, you have your whole life together to do it. What's the rush?

Answer 15

Of course you do.  You are consummating your marriage.  That night is the greatest part of your wedding day.  Everything you do leads up to that.

Answer 16

I got no sleep the night before  thanks to nerves.Too tired after a  long emotional day. I barely had the energy to take my makeup off and fall into bed Luckily we had a late check out the next morning (wink wink)

Answer 17

YES. several times, and learned how to swim in the motel pool, (we had it to oursleves), watched the original version of "The Blob" on cable, got up early and went back to my parents' house to wake everybody up and fix breakfast.  wow, memory lane

Answer 18

I think we did it out of tradition.  but I was so tired I know it could of been better.  

Answer 19

not now...but i will try ...

Answer 20

In this era when people have s*x before marriage and even in states

lot of them have kids before marriage your question brought smile on

my face .

In indian culture everybody thinks they should make love on first night

which i beilve 95% of people do it either they like it or not but everyone

have different opinion but if u r in india u know girl is crying cause she

have to depart from her family she is tired due to all the customs we

have she is in new home with new person so dont force s*x on her if

u respect her feelings if she don't feel like don't do it u have whole life

to have fun and she will respect u more.

But in this modern era if u both have met each other gone shopping

to eat out know each other very well then go for it by the way my wife

was on her period on that special night.

Answer 21

im not married but why the c**p wouldn't you make love on your wedding night...im gonna have it over and over again that night....and every other night....its the most amazing thing in the world to make love to someone you love with all your heart