Did you wait to have s*x or jump right into it?

Question

Just curious as to how many couples waited until they tied the knot to have s*x. Do you think you benefited from waiting? Or is s*x just as meaningful before getting married?

Answer 1

My first time was a threesome.  My bestfriend (who i secretly had a crush on) told me that she wanted to go to one of her friends party.  I drove her across town then dropped her off.  I waited till she got in before leaving.  Her friend then popped out crying.  I stopped the car and went out.  Apparently her friend had just told her parents that she was bisexual and they went crazy.  My bestfriend asked if I could drive back to her house.  I said yes cause I wanted to impress her, but inside I was pissed cause I wasted a gallon of gas.  Anyways we got back to her house and she invited me inside.  All of us went up to her room.  Once we got into her room she ripped open my shirt and started to suck my nipples.  We stripped each others clothes off and started to have s*x.  Then her bisexual friend started giving me a *******.  At first I was weirded out, but the more she sucked and licked the more I enjoyed it until me and her were having full on anal s*x (for a bisexual girl she was pretty hot, sorta looked like amanda beard).  After the night me she told me that that was her first time in bed with a man.  SHe told me she enjoyed it alot.  I then asked her if she would be my girlfriend and she said yes.  Now that wonderful women is my wife and we've been married 4 years with 3 kids.

Answer 2

I waited and its wonderful. You don't think to compared to anyone. Or who's better or not. Stick to one, you have peace in mind.

Answer 3

I think you should wait until your ready but as long as you care about the person your with I don't think it should make a difference.

Answer 4

Once I knew I wanted to be with my husband and nobody else (when we were dating) then we had s*x. I think it's good to wait a little while, just to make sure the relationship works for the both of you.

Answer 5

My husband did not wait till marriage and when we did decide to have s*x we made sure we were ready emotionally. We were in love and it made it amazing. You do not have to wait for marriage unless of course of your religion if you think it is right to do so. s*x is a important matter in a relationship. It just isn't s*x. It is a way to show each other your passion for one another physically.

Answer 6

i waited until i was 16, and lost my virginity to my boyfriend of, whew, like a year. i waited until i was ready, and i have never regretted it.

now im married, and happy. i think it CAN be as meaningful, but it isn't always. some people make mistakes, or invest too much in the frivolous  teenage/ premarital relationship they are in. in my case, i was ready, i enjoyed it, i had gotten plenty of information from my mom (and she put me on the pill). if you choose your partners wisely, and dont let anyone pressure you EVER then s*x can be fantastic. i don't think that marriage is required, i wasn't raised that way.  

Answer 7

for us we didnt wait happened 2 times, then we decided to develope our relationship to build something more, we wanted to make sure that we wernt getting married just on the basis of good s*x. It was worth it, we found that we were ment to be and the s*x is like a bonus, even better than the first 2 times.

Answer 8

it's absoulutely essential to have s*x before marriage cuz it's the only was you can understand that you will have a good s*x life with your partner or not,if you don't like the way that your partner does in s*x you don't have to marry with that person cuz a bad s*x would make you hate you partner,so it's better to understand it before marriage.i had a boyfriend and we wanted to marry but when i had s*x with him i just understood it's so horrible to have s*x with him then i broke up .but if you know,the guy ask u to have s*x with him before marriage and he's trying to abuse u it's another subject  

Answer 9

lol I waited, ..... and now I am married. WOOT!!!1

Answer 10

I'm not married, but just jumped describes my life well. I always look before I leap though, I'm not stupid, just adventuresome.

Answer 11

I waited till we got married and found from previous experience that this way it was much more meaningful.

Answer 12

I jumped right in. Couldn't wait and believe me it was good..... :)

Answer 13

Waited until I was married, age 31. Benefited? It's just something I wanted to do.

Answer 14

We definitely had the s*x first. That's how we both knew we were right for each other. 5 years of marriage, and 3 kids, we are still married, and the s*x still keeps getting better and better.  

Answer 15

I believe God wants us to wait but this is one thing I have a little concern about because I feel it is best that you have passion in the bedroom (or wherever) in order for a marriage to be complete.

Maybe I am wrong but it is just how I feel  

Answer 16

My husband and i didn't wait we started having s*x while we were dating.

For us it was just as meaningful.

Answer 17

I jump right in. s*x is s*x.

It's essential for a healthy relationship.

My current boyfriend and I, would of had s*x on the first date if it weren't for my sister and her boyfriend coming along with us.

Only because he was hard the whole time... being a virgin and all...

On the third date I can say we did have s*x ;)

It wasn't very fun though, when I found out there were people spying on us!

Answer 18

i'm 18 a virgin and waiting until i'm a 100% ready. ( i'm not emoinally ready) i don't plan to wait unitl marrage ( if i make it that far i make it)

i waiting until i have my own place, can afford birth control and the other part i said before. I have a bf of 7 months

Answer 19

Never waited, and I dont' think I'd have wanted to, s*x is an important thing in any relationship,. To make an alaogy its rather archaic to think that you can have a 'meaningful' relationship without figuring if that part of the relationship will work.

Look at it this way, woudlyou marry someone you never met, never saw their face. Ya you 'might makke it work' you might not, the same can be said for s*x, rue you COULD make it work, and you could not, but why take the chance?

Just be safe about it

Answer 20

never go for it