Did your wife/husband is like what you had in mind for a good while?

Question

Did you have in mind what type of guy/girl you want to spend the rest of your life with? Did your life partner turned out exactly like that or turned out different? If different, how different?

Answer 1

Mine turned out different, I thought she was all about working together and having a true partnership, boy was I wrong, when the going got tough she left me.  She became so selfish it was unreal.

Answer 2

The man I wanted to marry was a very sensitive man however I married someone who I wouldn't call insensitive but not at all sensitive.  I think it works out better that way because I am sensitive actually sometimes to sensitive and he helps balance me out.  He is honest, faithful and a good lover.  There are things I would change about him however I love him to death.

Answer 3

I was young when I got married. I didn't understand what a player was at that time.  He was nice to me & my parents told me I would never get anyone better than him.  On our honeymoon, he did a 180 on me & became abussive on all levels.  The control switch was turn on & up high...  I tolerated this for 15.5 yrs - left him 4 yrs ago...  What would I have done different?  Listened to my gut!  

Answer 4

Different in every way but he's everything I didn't know I wanted.

Answer 5

lol defiantly not what i had in mind ... he is a s**y gamer... don't like that he plays video games as a hobby but he is so sweet and caring so I really could not have dreamed this up its unreal..  

Answer 6

To be honest, I don't even remember what I "pictured" before my spouse...but I do know that he fits exactly what I want forever to a tee.  I couldn't have asked for a more handsome, caring, sensitive, funny, intelligent man.  He spoils me and takes care of me in every possible way imaginable.  He loves me and is always there for me.  Dang.  I got soooooo lucky.    

Answer 7

That is why it is good to wait awhile before you marry someone. Then you think less and know more.

Even then, people change as you experience life. If you love one another then you make the effort to either grow together or adapt to the changes.

Answer 8

I thought he was when I married him, but several years later he developed into something I didn't much like at all.