Didn't o****m the first time?

Question

I've only had s*x once, and when we did, he came three times, and I didn't at all. Is this a bad thing from either point of view? I sorta feel really bad for not climaxing, but it's not like I could force it. Mature answers please.

Answer 1

He came 3 times   Happy Mothers Day  !!!!  I am willing to bet that you didn't use condoms    Good Luck to you mama

Answer 2

Calm down.. Its normal.. Some women it only take a few times and others a lifetime or not at all.. Orgasms are 90% from the mind the other 10 in from the genitals.

Answer 3

Don't feel bad..its not his fault and its not yours....it was your first time...a lot of people dont climax on their first time....you don't know what your body likes best yet...give it a few more times...soon you'll find your spot!!

Answer 4

Most woman don't climax the first time because they don't really know what will turn them on or not, right now your discovering your sexual side also most people think that women catch an o****m through the v****a which is not true the woman has her o****m through her clitoris, so the friction when your having s*x rubbing against your clitoris will get you an o****m..just a tip :)  

Answer 5

Most women who tell you they o****m the first time they have s*x are lying!  I was married nearly 6 years before I had my first one.....and you're right, you can't force it!  It takes time and patience and experimenting and gentleness to establish a really good sexual relationship with your partner.  It will happen........probably when you least expect it!

Answer 6

Some men never learn how to please woman. I think you have to communicate with your partner. Tell him you didn't o****m. Assuming you can pleasure yourself, show him how you do it.

Anyway, there's a really good book on the subject called "She Comes First". It's a must read for any male. The book for women is called "He Comes Second."