We are having a baby in September, after being together for 11 years.
My boyfriend was raised in a household that "whooped" (even using a belt). I was raised in a household where we usually were scolded and punished by losing privileges, but sometimes were spanked. I am extremely 100% against my child ever being hit with a belt, as I never went through that, but it seems terrifying and painful, if not abusive. I think it makes the child fear the parent in the wrong way. How do I convince him to do things my way without seeming to "look down on" his parents' choices?
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